BobW Jan 19, 2013
Some years ago, I worked with a guy named Mark who made no secret of the fact he did not like me; and it didn't take me long to feel the same about him. Yet in a few dreams where he showed up we were always friendly to each other, smiling.

What I took from those dreams was that, truth were known, Mark and I were a lot alike. Both strongly opinionated, both with fixed views of how to do the job, neither likely to change the other.

You describe Matt as "arrogant and a swagfag", then say he hates you because you are sarcastic and insult him. sounds like you have a lot in common; and maybe that's what this dream is trying to tell you!

I doubt that Mark and I would've ever become friends; but I'm reminded of something a wise old cop once told me: "Just because somebody calls you an SOB doesn't mean you have to prove he's right."