I don't remember the beginning of this dream but I know it was some sort of contest that someone messed up so I never got the results. Anyway, so I was at an outdoor basketball court that was 2 courts lengthwise and there are people playing on the right hand court. There is someone from my high school days at the far left end of the court. He asks me if one of the cd's in my cd case belongs to a mutual friend of ours (She was then and is now, my best friend, with only a few years between high school and now that we weren't best friends.) and I tell him yes. He goes on about how he has been wanting that cd for a long time so I tell him to text her and ask if he can have it because odds are she will. He states that he doesn't want to do that and gives me a bunch of reasons that I don't remember. Then I offer to burn the cd for him and he declines that also and states more reasons that I do not remember. Out of nowhere our mutual friend appears and I grab my infant son (who is in his car seat) and walk away with her. We start to walk the length of the court and I am picking up high heeled shoes and fashionable boots as we go along, somehow I know these are all my shoes. As we walk I make a comment about my boyfriend killing a black widow spider in this area. My friend tells me that "those spiders can kill you." and I tell her that I know this. Suddenly I am not there anymore, but at my aunt's house. My cousins tells me something but instead of just saying it, it is written down on some sort of work sheet. I don't remember the whole paper, but one of my cousins (both female) wrote "the last time I saw your dogs, they were weke" (I knew this was supposed to be weak.) and the other had written "Yeah, someone might call the social worker on you if you aren't careful" Those words were barely legible. I get mad and I tell my boyfriend that I want to leave but I don't tell him why because I knew he'd get mad since all our dogs are fat. So we get into a Chevy Tahoe that belongs to our old neighbor and 2 guys we know (but I don't really know) get in with us. One of the guys seems like a typical stoner, very slow and relaxed and he says something about "if his girlfriend was still alive" but doesn't finish his sentence. Then we are driving down the road and my boyfriend asks why we left in such a hurry and I told him about the paper. He gets furious and just stops talking. The sky is very dark and cloudy, it's raining and the car in front of us is putting off a lot of smoke so we can barely see. I tell my boyfriend that the car in front of us is going to wreck and he says, "Well if it does, we will just accelerate through it." As soon as he says it the car in front of us spins out and hits the car in front of them, which causes that car to hit the car in the lane to the right and all three go into barrel rolls and just like my boyfriend said, he accelerated through and the car to the right rolls over the Tahoe, hitting it all the way over but it didn't cause any damage. Then my boyfriend jerks the wheel to the right and tries to get onto the interstate but since the road is wet, he slides and the truck rolls onto the driver side and then its top and then back onto its driver side. I look into the back and the "stoner" looking guy is just laying back, as relaxed as can be. He almost appears to be sleeping. My boyfriend says, "We will be fine as long as a semi doesn't come and run us over." As soon as he says it I look into the rear view mirror and I can see a semi coming up the ramp towards us. Instead of hitting us though, it zooms by and the wind from it, somehow shakes the Tahoe enough to rock us back onto our tires, so my boyfriend starts driving again, but instead of being in the Tahoe, we are in his 1990 blue eclipse. I look back and comment that the back window looks funny and as soon as i say it, it collapses. Then we notice that his driver side window kind of drops down a little, and the guy behind him says, I think it just needs an adjustment, and reaches forward and pulls up on the glass. As soon as he does this, he pulls the whole door up off its hinges, so my boyfriend grabs his door and holds it while we are driving down the interstate. That's when I woke up. Right before this dream, I remember having another short dream. Me and my boyfriend were walking through the woods and we came across a bear, so he shot it. As soon as he shot it, a baby bear came out from behind her and I told my boyfriend that we had to take care of it since he killed its mom. It was a very sweet, tame bear and it was very gentle when it played with you. So we took it home and we were telling people about how awesome this bear was and all we got were bad reactions about how we shouldn't have a bear around our child. I go into the room where the bear is and my son (who is somehow old enough to talk) tells me that our friend (who I do not like in real life) was "trying to play mean." with the cub but the cub wouldn't play mean back. About that time I woke up because my son was crying.
There seems to be a lot of mis-communication or lack of communication in this dream. First, you can't get the results of the contest. Then the guy who wants the cd won't text your friend to tell her why he wants the cd and he doesn't want you to burn the cd for him. (A cd itself is a way of sharing information.) There is the way your cousin misspells "weak" in the note and how the other cousin's note is barely legible. The dream about the baby bear has a similar theme of miscommunicaion. The bear is nice but everyone else thinks it is going to hurt your son. Shoes in dreams can have to do with your identity. So, overall, a lot of the dreams are about you feeling that people don't understand you or aren't listening to you. The dream is also about threats that were avoided - your boyfriend killing the spider and then you almost having car accidents. So it could have to do with worries that you have about something bad happening.