Hi,

I keep having recurring dreams of a guy I went to school with. :shock:

When I was young in Jr. High in the 80's I was in love and infatuated with this guy. Everyone in school knew I loved him. Anyway, from the time I met him up til the time I graduated high school we never hooked up, but I always had dreams about him then too, even after we graduated from high school, it seemed every night I would dream about him and me being in love. At that time in my life I felt that him and I should grow old together, well it never happened.

Okay I graduated in 1988, since then I didn't have many dreams of this guy, but they were still there, alot of times it was always the same dream over and over again.

Well I haven't had a dream about this guy in years.

I am happily married and have been for 12 years now.

Well, over the past couple of months I have been having these intense dreams of this guy, that we are making love, kissing and actually being a couple, all with my husband being in my dream too. :cry:

I am getting pretty upset because I love my husband and would never do anything to hurt him but yet, when I have these dreams of this guy it stirs up alot of lost feelings and I feel love for this guy again.

I want to forget all of this, and I don't know why I am dreaming all of this. I can't figure out why I am dreaming of him and it is tearing me up inside because, I was in love with this guy for 6 years of my life and thought of nothing else but that in school.

Am I a strange person or does these dreams mean something?

I am so confused........................

Please help me...........................

The dream doesn't mean that you are planning or want to to have a relationship with this person, or that you want to cheat on your husband.

You may be dreaming about this guy because he represents a certain quality to you, or because he reminds you of something that your subconscious is trying to send you messages about.