Hi, I am new here. I had an dream about my ex-girlfriend. A little background on the relationship, the relationship was long distant, and she stopped contact with me all of an sudden 4 years ago. Waited on her for 3 years with no contact before I finally gave up. Fast forward to now I have been having very vivid dreams of her the past couple months and the one below is the most recent dream I just had of her.

The dream starts out with me in the back seat of an black Chevy Caviler with gray interior. In the front seat are my parents. We are going down an street at night that is lined with lamp post and the lights has an amber glow to it. I am sitting in the back seat and I have an smartphone in my hand. I am texting to my ex-gf about how much I miss her and that I wanted to be with her. Then the next thing in my dream she is sitting right by me in the back seat of the car. She looks at me and says how does she know that I still love her after all this time since we last spoke. I take out an sheet of paper and I write. On the paper I write, I loved you since the first time we was together. I waited on you during times you was not here and always kept my heart true to you. My heart hurts when you are away but when we are together it feels whole. I always love you and I always will. I feel I want to spend my life with you. Will you marry me? I then take the sheet of paper and fold it. I hand it to her and say when you feel you are ready to know, read the letter. She takes the letter, looks at it, and then immediatly open it. She reads it and starts smilling and an tear comes down her face. She hugs me and says we are going to get married. Then she tells my parents in the front of the car that we are getting married. Right before I wake up I say to myself that I don't want to wake up, which has been happening a lot in my past couple dreams about her. At which point I wake up and find myself crying.

That's the whole dream from begging to end, which has been bothering me since I woke up. Any help in interpreting it is greatly appreciated.

Well, since you say she stopped contact with you "all of a sudden" and it took you 3 years to give up, it seems that you never really figured out what was wrong that made her want to stop seeing you, and you therefore never found closure.

Has there anything been going on in your life in the past couple of once that would be making you think about change, relationships or just remind you of her and your time together in some way? Has something happpened in that time that has made you feel like you've lost something or someone?

3 years is a long time to wait for someone to reappear. Your feelings for her must be extremely strong.

I thought on your questions, my aunt got married 6 months ago. Thats about the time when the first of these dreams started. Recently I was at an gathering for my cousins 20th birthday about an week ago. My uncle was talking about how my cousins girlfriend was an good person and everything. That did make me think about my ex at the time during that discussion.